tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5223027726680052006.post5540705883267024150..comments2023-07-15T00:49:06.852-07:00Comments on asexy beast: The Fantasy of Being...Ilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12795337226989102549noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5223027726680052006.post-8189392952613281112009-05-30T11:31:49.088-07:002009-05-30T11:31:49.088-07:00Wow, interesting! The quote that most speaks to m...Wow, interesting! The quote that most speaks to me is this one:<br /><br />"I find the AS bright sides a little forced (and false) too, but it's better to reconcile yourself with yourself than keep waiting for a cure which is never going to come..."Myself--Who Else?https://www.blogger.com/profile/17913613870714098790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5223027726680052006.post-67710135021582063432009-05-30T11:26:12.268-07:002009-05-30T11:26:12.268-07:00I was thinking of the fat parallel near-immediatel...I was thinking of the fat parallel near-immediately--have you read my latest lj post?<br />I think this is related to the issue of perception I discussed. We tend to assume that other people are seeing and criticizing whatever's different about us, whether that be our neuroqueerness (neuroqueeritude? neuroqueerosity?), our asexuality, or our fat. The truth is, what looms large in our own minds often doesn't even register for other people, and even when it does, it's probably not the way we imagine it.Fellmamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08651050366058663737noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5223027726680052006.post-7219423894750269602009-05-29T16:50:19.466-07:002009-05-29T16:50:19.466-07:00Yeah, and that's what may happen with the drawback...Yeah, and that's what may happen with the drawbacks of asexuality, aromanticism, Asperger, and so on.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5223027726680052006.post-4081223425290705472009-05-29T16:04:25.790-07:002009-05-29T16:04:25.790-07:00"There is no bad that doesn't bring good"? Did I ..."There is no bad that doesn't bring good"? Did I get that right?Ilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12795337226989102549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5223027726680052006.post-77927407639071739092009-05-29T15:37:14.210-07:002009-05-29T15:37:14.210-07:00No hay mal que por bien no vengaSpanish proverb<I>No hay mal que por bien no venga</I>Spanish proverbAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com